In order to fully comprehend the opportunities for
an online community catering to “The Lifestyle”
it is imperative to understand what swinging actually
is. Swinging is a form of recreational social sex
between consenting adults, most commonly consisting
of ...
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Many couples set up rules for themselves so that each
partner understands what is and is not acceptable.
This is an excellent idea, especially for beginning
couples to safeguard against hurting someone's feelings.
Rules can be anything from no oral, to no pain. Whatever
each partner is comfortable ...
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"No means No" If you can't respect other
people's wishes, or you can't voice your own, then
swinging is NOT for you! No is not an insult. No may
be because of a mood, a rule, or it might mean the
other person (couple) is not ready. It may also mean...
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Not all parties are going to lead straight to bed.
Most people prefer to get to know each other a little.
Remember, attraction isn't totally physical (Hey,
stop looking down my shirt!) Remember to converse
with both partners. Don't get too preoccupied with
the opposite sexes' pants! ...
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Foreplay with other partners, sometimes including
oral sex but no vaginal penetration. Can add spice
to a couple's relationship and allow them to have
fun without the risk of disease or jealousy. Many
couples start out as soft swingers as they first explore
swinging. But don't think that soft swingers will
always convert to full swapping...
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Once you've decided to enter the Lifestyle,
the next step is to meet other Swingers. There are
several ways you can accomplish this ...
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Getting started in the Lifestyle is not an
easy thing. It is one of the most gut-wrenching decisions
a person/couple will ever make. Society has built
up around us a set of traditional values that
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Just remember that we all must take responsibility
for our actions. There may be times where you may
lose control of yourself in the excitement of a particular
activity and do something that you may later...
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One of the first couples we were with had
been in the swinging lifestyle for many years. They
gave us much needed advice and guidance. They talked
to us about lifemate and playmates. It's something
that has stuck with us...
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